Our youngest son was married this past weekend. The prayer surrounding him and his new bride from both sides of the family, representing generations of faithfulness, was tremendous. It was a joy-filled event.
I finished mowing the lawn today and as I closed up the shed where I store the lawn mower, I looked at the little bolt at the top of the door. It is designed to keep the double doors flush to the frame. A clasp lock lower down puts the two doors together and that’s where the padlock keeps the shed secure. The little bolt is not high for an adult to reach and loosen to open the doors, but for a kid it’s a bit of a challenge.
Almost every time I take hold of that little bolt now I’m thrown back to an image years ago. When we first got the shed our boys were little. I think our oldest wanted to go out and ride his bike so he went out to get the bike out of the shed. I can remember so vividly watching from the back door as he went right to the door, unlocked the padlock, then leaped up to undo the little bolt. It was beyond his reach standing there, but he wasn’t going to let that stop him. A couple of leaps and he had it loose and the doors came open.
Each of the boys then grew and took turns taking care of the lawn. They are all grown and gone now and it’s up to me to get the mower out and take care of the lawn.
The little bolt today threw me once again back to watching that scene and reflecting on how fast last moves. In two very short days our youngest son gets married. He is marrying a wonderful young lady we are so proud to welcome into the family. All three boys will be there. Our oldest with his wife and they are expecting our first grandchild. Our middle son working hard and making his way in life.
Adult young men and I’m left wondering… how did that happen so fast?
I finished Don Meyer’s wonderful book, The Distinguishing Mark of Leadership, yesterday and Dr. Meyer asks a key question that he has modeled all of his life: what is my legacy?
This Saturday I will be gathered with my legacy. Three incredible sons. Two daughters-in-law. A grandbaby on the way. An amazing wife.
Our children are part of the greatest legacy we can live for this planet, and for the Kingdom of God. They will have the opportunity to live out the values of generations that have gone before. I pray I have fulfilled the legacy of my parents and grandparents. They are giants to me.
Our children are the testimony to the world of God’s faithfulness and the hope of what they can do to extend the beauty of the Kingdom well past our time on this planet.
I love that shed every time I go to mow the lawn. I take hold of that little bolt and I think of three boys, now men, and how proud I am to be called their dad.
I’ve contemplated this year… for all of 5 minutes.
In this year: We will have relocated our church and relaunched ministry, welcomed our second daughter in law to the family, and become a grandpa.
Quite the year I’m find myself halfway through.
I don’t get asked a lot, but every once in awhile someone will ask what I want for Christmas.
This year I’ve said the same thing: World Peace.
I just don’t have a Christmas wish list. My life is full.
My family is doing well. My wife and I are having a great time as we watch our sons mature. We’ve had a house full of young adults this fall who are making their way in life and that has been nice, actually. No big struggles. We’ve actually had them successfully sit down with us every week for a house meeting, which I couldn’t do with my sons once they hit high school!
Our church is on a new trajectory as the Lord challenges us to dig deeper into our community. This next year will be full of incredible new territory for us!
At my point in life, while I can always enjoy a good book and a great cup of coffee, what is possible for a Christmas wish list?
A question I’ve challenged myself with over the past several months is this: Is it well with my soul?
In this season, that answer is “yes.”
But could someone please work on that world peace thing for me?
God bless us… everyone.
I got to experience what the Sprint commercial calls “framily” on this trip. My wife and I traveled to Kansas for my high school reunion. The weekend was filled with family get togethers intertwined with reunion activities.
We caught up with old friends and had wonderful conversations.
We had family meals and caught up on family news.
We even got to explore a bit more of my home state by taking my parents to the Eisenhower museum in Abilene.
It has been a trip full of joy and gratitude. And “framily”.