What If Love Really DID Win?

I can’t help it. I have to weigh in on the discussion over Rob Bell’s book. It’s not deep. It’s just a question.

I just celebrated my 23rd wedding anniversary. I truly married UP, as they say. My wife is incredible. We met in college on a missions trip and I can remember so wonderfully the moment I knew I needed to get to know her better. It was a pursuit.

As we finally got to know each other (which only happened because I kept chasing and she finally got tired of running, I’m sure), I learned more about this wonderful lady. Spiritually, she was amazing. A true woman of prayer, heart for missions, and so much more.

In other areas, there were, shall we say, “CHALLENGES.”

The first time she cooked for me it was an experiment. (She does this all the time, but back then I had no idea.) Her wonderful meal was a half acorn squash filled with cracked wheat of some sort. It was an all natural meal. No meat.

Being a college kid, I left that meal and immediately went back to my room to order a Domino’s pizza.

And think.

Was this going to be my meal sustenance if I married this gal?

Over time I had to make a decision. I truly grew to love her. I had an idea she was growing to love me. Was this worth the commitment? Natural foods? Not much meat?

Guess what? My love for her and her love for me changed me.

Her love has caused me to willingly think over my life and over the years, as our love has grown, change occurs. It occurs for her and for me.

This doesn’t fully address all that Rob Bell brings up, and I don’t intend to attempt that. But as I think of some of his questions, and as I am reading Bonhoeffer’s biography by Eric Metaxas (along with meditating on 1 Peter 2), I am struck by this thought: Those who name themselves Christians at least should be exhibiting some change. Why? Because Christ’s love has touched them.

As I contemplate the descriptions of Christ’s radical love for us in 1 Peter 2, there is a responsive action! Peter calls his readers to change. Why? Because the love of Christ has touched you. We don’t change out of misery. We change out of a loving response.

If my love for my wife is truly there, I know I need to grow and develop as a man and a husband for her. It’s not always comfortable, and I don’t always respond well. Yet, if her “love wins,” I make some changes.

If the love of Christ truly wins, change happens. Not all at once. But if the love of Christ truly touches, there will be some movement out of loving gratitude, even if it’s over years of walking with Christ.

What we too often see in our newest version of American Christianity is no change. We seem to want to find ways to acknowledge that I am God’s precious child and he loves me just as I am and he demands nothing more. But we are mistaken in that assessment. It is not his demand. It is supposed to be about our loving response.

Bonhoeffer observed the dilemma in his day. People named the name of God and just lived as they wished. Was this the gospel?

He wrote in a letter to his brother-in-law in 1936 these words:

If it is I who determine where God is to be found, then I shall always find a God who corresponds to me in some way, who is obliging, who is connected with my own nature. But if God determines where he is to be found, then it will be in a place which is not immediately pleasing to my nature and which is not at all congenial to me. This place is the Cross of Christ. And whoever would find him must go to the foot of the Cross, as the Sermon on the Mount commands. This is not according to our nature at all, it is entirely contrary to it. But this is the message of teh Bible, not only in the New but also in the Old Testament…”

Now, this doesn’t address all the questions of eternity, those who haven’t heard the gospel, etc. I understand that, and I’m not trying to make that attempt. I AM just thinking out loud about true love and how we really WOULD respond if we ARE allowing God’s love to penetrate our lives. Especially as believers.

If love really did win, it truly would be noticeable because there would be a loving response.

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