The Wedding

Tomorrow I have the privilege of performing the wedding for my oldest son. I will attempt to do so without crying all the way through the ceremony.

It was last week, I’m sure, that my wife and I looked down at this new infant laying between us and thought, “How could we have so much love for one human being?” But we did. And we’ve done so three times with three amazing boys.

It was just six days ago, I’m sure, that I’m chasing this toddler down the halls of some mall. He is just learning to walk, but he’s always been in a hurry. So, he doesn’t just start to walk. He starts to run. And I’ve been trying to catch up since that day.

It was just five days ago, I’m sure, that I’m watching him dribble a basketball when he wasn’t even 2. Then, he’s hitting a ball off a tee playing with boys 2-3 years older than he is. I’ve got major league contracts on my mind. I’ll be his agent. My future is secure.

It was just four days ago, I’m sure, I’m watching him play baseball and soccer and learning that knives are really cool.

It was just three days ago, I’m sure, I’m watching him go to high school. We have homeschooled all this time, but then we put him in public school and he thrives. I find him a job working for a garage and he’s never quit working.

It was just two days ago, I’m sure, I’m watching him graduate high school. He has made it through. We are swelling with pride.

And now, he’s in college, working on his own business and marrying a wonderful young lady. One week and it’s flown by.

I am incredibly proud of the man he is becoming. I am thankful for his love for life. I can’t believe this day has come. Tonight I am incredibly thankful man. The Lord is truly good.

 

6 responses to “The Wedding”

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  3. Great reflections, Dan. it does seem like the time flies by from infant to an adult on his own. The memories will come and go for you all, with much smiles and laughs, and a feeling of being very proud. We never know how things will turn out, but they do in a most wonderful way in the end, don’t they? Well done. God is good.

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  4. Congratulations! Can’t wait to hear your thoughts on the big day.

    I know how it goes too. My husband and I raised our nephew as our own from the time he was twelve. He is now married to an incredible young lady and they are making me a 33-year-old grandma in May. Such a blessing.

    Though it does make me eye our little ones with suspicion – will I wake up tomorrow and they will be graduating from college?

    1. Crystal, it will happen. You blink and it’s different! It’s enjoyable and gratifying… but WOW does it happen fast!

  5. What wonderful memories. It all happens so fast. I’ve got 3 grown children and a grandchild! Where has time gone? But looking forward to the time with expanded family and new grandchildren. Ongoing aspirations and hopes for them. Such is life.

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